Caring for an aging loved one is a deeply rewarding experience, but it can also take a significant toll on your physical and emotional well-being. Many caregivers become so focused on meeting the needs of their loved one that they forget to take care of themselves. But we want to remind you that maintaining your own health and well-being is key—not only for you but also for your ability to continue providing care.
The first step in caring for yourself is recognizing that you have limits. Caregiving is often physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting, and it’s okay to admit when you need help. Acknowledging that you can’t do everything on your own is a sign of strength, not weakness. By being realistic about what you can handle, you can avoid burnout and ensure you’re in a better place to care for your loved one.
It’s easy to neglect your own health when you’re focused on someone else’s needs, but this can lead to exhaustion and illness over time. Make sure you’re scheduling regular checkups for yourself, eating nutritious meals, and staying physically active. Simple practices like taking a walk or having a quick check-in with your doctor can go a long way in preserving your energy and well-being.
Also, prioritize sleep. Caregivers often report chronic sleep deprivation, which can lead to serious health issues. Make it a goal to get proper rest, and consider asking for help at night if needed.
It’s easy to fall into the mindset that caregiving is a 24/7 job, but it’s crucial to set boundaries and allow yourself time off. Taking regular breaks to recharge isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. Schedule moments in your day or week where you can step away from caregiving duties, whether it’s for a short walk, coffee with a friend, or simply some quiet time to rest.
Setting boundaries also means being clear with your loved one about when you need time for yourself. They may understand more than you realize and will benefit from seeing you take care of your own needs as well.
Don’t be afraid to lean on friends, family, and community resources. Asking for help from those who care about you can lighten the load and give you the mental space to recharge. Whether it’s emotional support or practical help like running errands or preparing meals, a strong support system can make all the difference. You can even pay them with your employer's money for care tasks through out platform—as long as the care saves your workday.
Consider joining a caregiver support group, either online or in person, where you can connect with others who understand what you’re going through. Sharing your experience with others can help you feel less isolated and more empowered to keep going.
Caring for yourself means knowing when to ask for backup. With Helpr’s care benefits, you can recruit a backup adult care provider to give yourself the breathing room you need. Whether you need a few hours to cover a last-minute meeting or the traffic it takes for you to get home, at Helpr, we connects you with trusted, vetted professionals who can step in when you can’t be there. And because the care is subsidized, cost won’t be an added burden during an already stressful time.
In addition to caregiving support, Helpr’s dedicated team is always available to offer guidance and resources. Whether you need assistance finding the right care provider or just someone to talk to, we’re here to help you navigate the challenges of caregiving.
Caring for an aging loved one is a noble and important responsibility, but it’s vital to take care of yourself too. By acknowledging your limits, prioritizing your health, setting boundaries, and leaning on both your support network and services like us, you can continue to be the caregiver your loved one needs—without sacrificing your own well-being.